Yah...

[Cherry]

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[JorrellVsRoxas]

Erm... you could've helped your self with that one... Just start spending time with your family. IDK if you'll find it fun, but if you really want to change that side of you, I don't see why not.

oh and um, happy birthday

[Cariad]

OMG I am exactly the same as you, its quite scary.

I never want people to make a fuss over me on birthdays, etc. I always decline the offer of having a party, I just don't want the attention. I like being a lone wolf.

Hmm, I don't think changing is the answer.. you can't change who you are at heart. You could make yourself spend more time with your family, but... I don't know, it might annoy you after a while.

Aww, they abandoned you on your birthday :( Thats.. not good. Did you get cards, etc? Because atleast that shows the care.

More importantly, Happy Birthday ! :birthday:

[JorrellVsRoxas]

I usually ask for money cause I go out alot now...

i bet if you ask they would give you atleast 100 bucks

[P]

Is there a reason you dislike spending time with them? Try and figure that out, then attempt to fix the problem.

[Near-to-Tears]

Well, you're around sixteen-seventeen right? It's perfectly normal for teenagers of that age to want to distance themselves futher from their family. It's simply part of growing up. Though you say it's been going on for long then just recently. Since you were eight infact, which just seems like a defensive measure your mind's added. Some people get clingy (Like myself) and other distance themselves. Only thing you can do to change that is to pro-actively decide: "Right. I'm going to go be with my family and I'm going to spend time with them." Even if it's just a movie or a show you watch once or twice a week. Then in time you'll grow more accustomed to spending time with them.

And Happy Birthday Cherry <3
May you get many hugs, cookies, chocolate and expensive pressies.

[PAW]

First off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Your older! XD

Now to get serious, I can't say for sure but it seems something similar to what I do. I just stay in my room as much as possible because I hate being with my parents alot of the time, mainly because for years they have shouted and moaned at me for doing so many things wrong I just stay in my room as much as i can so I don't have to talk to them.
What i'm tryin to say is this probably happened because your parents do something you don't like, you might know what it is, you might not, but I would recommend finding the source of the problem and having a serious discussion with one of your family members saying how you don't want to seem like you don't belong. Remember, family is the closests you'll ever get with any one, don't lose them.
Good luck and have a good day. Stay smilin for today atleast! :D

[Cherry]

Thanks for the sweet comments! I'll take all of that into account and hopefully I can be more of a family person lol xD

^^ *Glomps everyone* Thank youuu!! *Showers people with presents*

[RoxaSora2010]

First: HAPPY B-DAY!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D
And I have that prob too. I'm all the time on my computer, on KHV to chat. My parents said that too, so sorry, but I can't suggest you a thing:(

[PAW]

Thanks for the sweet comments! I'll take all of that into account and hopefully I can be more of a family person lol xD

^^ *Glomps everyone* Thank youuu!! *Showers people with presents*

XD

Just remeber if things don't workout the first time, or your not sure what to do next, you'll alwaays have this area to ask us. Don't forget we care for you! ^^

[Cherry]

Thank you... I'll be sure to come here when I have a problem...

^^ I can trust you guys for help ^^

[ZamgItsFury]

Ok, I have this little problem...

Eversince I was about 8 years old, I wanted people to leave me alone...
...Especially on my birthdays...

I don't know why, but it seems like I'm distancing myself from my family...

I realised this yesterday when my mom told me (whilst out on a family trip...) that I never like to spend time with them. I said of course I like to spend time with all of you.

She then said, ''Then why do you never want to chat to us, or join us in a game? You even find it troublesome to stay next to us... ''

-_- Seriously, I just want to change that part of myself...

Oh yeah... Its my birthday today, and well, the house is empty. :cryinganime: They abandoned me!

***warning: fury will now be straight up with u.***

ok them "abandoning" you is not really expected, but you can't blame anybody but urself about that one....surry T.T

on the other hand, if u really want to change that side of you, then thats a good start. make sure you try to get involved with ur family as much as possibleas in dinner, church (depending on religion), and what u said above, chat and games.

i think its quite easy to realize what other people think you should do, and you should take their advice. but you know the best answer because you know your family and you know how to respond back toward people like your family.

best of luck to ya! ^_^

o yeah, happy birthday whoot whoot! :D

one more year, one more year, one more super duper year
extra imagical, extra fantastical, extra spectacular year! (guess where thats from XD)

[Deathsight44]

NUUUUUHHHHHHH. CHERRY, DON'T CRY!!!!!!! OF course, they already said the right stuff to do, but still. Me no likes u cryen :(