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Mehgahtraun
09-29-2008, 11:46 AM
I have a stalker on this site, it's a girl, and it's also my mother. She's been following me around on the site for 2 weeks now. I need some help. What should I do?
Catch the Rain
09-29-2008, 11:48 AM
Wait what o_O
Your mother has an account and is stalking you online?
O_o
Axel 8
09-29-2008, 11:48 AM
well sux 4 u but the only way to get her to stop is to start a new account
Mehgahtraun
09-29-2008, 11:51 AM
Wait what o_O
Your mother has an account and is stalking you online?
O_o
Yes. She is. I don't like her very much.
well sux 4 u but the only way to get her to stop is to start a new account
But I just went premium. I don't want to start over again!
Name change then? Sig and avvy overhaul? Alter your profile to be an aging heshe of 77 with prostate cancer?
Mehgahtraun
09-29-2008, 11:57 AM
Is there a way she can get banned? Unfortunatly, I dont know her username.
Nope. Unless she breaks the rules, you are stuck where you are.
You could try and install a keylogger onto your computer, so you can discover her password and username that way.
Personally I would go with the name change and catching of prostate cancer.
Catch the Rain
09-29-2008, 12:05 PM
I do not advise using Key Loggers, they arent something to mess with unless you know what you are doing.
I can't ban your mother unless she really does something to break the rules o_O
but hun I am confused as to why your mom has an account, does she just want to check what you do online?
I really like the idea of a heshe with prostate cancer...
Or if that is too much, I suppose you could pass yourself off as Hillary Duff. Whatever floats your boat.
Mrs. Black Winged Angel's mom, ma'am! Please do not stalk your offspring on the Internet! It is very uncool parenting!
Cut him some slack, will you?
Problem solved?
Cherry
09-29-2008, 03:59 PM
Wait what o_O
Your mother has an account and is stalking you online?
O_o
Exactly my thoughts... You know what I did to get my mom off? I gave her a Hi-5 account so that she can have a fun time chatting to her friends lol xD
TheOnly9one
09-29-2008, 04:01 PM
I have a stalker on this site, it's a girl, and it's also my mother. She's been following me around on the site for 2 weeks now. I need some help. What should I do?
Wow... That's just... so not nice... I mean, me and my sisters stalk each other on-line, but it's more like a joke...
Cherry
09-29-2008, 04:10 PM
I'm so glad my mother stopped whilst she was ahead all those years ago!
Ok, as for you, black angel wing's mother, stop snooping into your daughter's life! we all need personal privacy!!
Friendly_Heartless
09-29-2008, 04:11 PM
Huh...? How do you know she's stalking you? O.o Hm... well find her another website to have fun on. :D And maybe she doesn't have an account since you don't know what her account is. Maybe she checks the history of the places you go on the computer? I dunno... *shrugs shoulders*
Mehgahtraun
09-29-2008, 07:23 PM
I do not advise using Key Loggers, they arent something to mess with unless you know what you are doing.
I can't ban your mother unless she really does something to break the rules o_O
but hun I am confused as to why your mom has an account, does she just want to check what you do online?
Well ever since she saw the thing on your sig that say, "....rape my shoe...." She got pissed at ME! She is very sensetive about that subject in the area of RAPE.
I'm so glad my mother stopped whilst she was ahead all those years ago!
Ok, as for you, black angel wing's mother, stop snooping into your daughter's life! we all need personal privacy!!
I'm a guy!
Catch the Rain
09-29-2008, 07:26 PM
So what was your mother's original reasoning for wanting to create the account? You said it has been two weeks.
No offense to your mother but I think she needs to learn to let go. It is a little sad to stalk your child online. Have you tried talking to her?
Actually, tell her to send me a PM from her account, I would like to talk to her.
Mehgahtraun
09-29-2008, 08:36 PM
Have you ever been raped? She has, and she doesn't like the thing on your sig. I, truthfully, couldn't care less. She's at work now, but you can talk to her in like 30 min. Okay?
Catch the Rain
09-29-2008, 08:41 PM
Have you ever been raped? She has, and she doesn't like the thing on your sig. I, truthfully, couldn't care less. She's at work now, but you can talk to her in like 30 min. Okay?
Yes I would like to talk to her, there are a couple of things I would like to say her before she attempts to judge me.
That is fine by me. I'll make some room in my PM box for her <3
Misty
09-29-2008, 09:09 PM
I can check your IP from you. That'd work if you guys use the same computer, I believe.
Prince_of_Hearts
09-30-2008, 12:25 AM
Wait what o_O
Your mother has an account and is stalking you online?
O_o
What?! Your mom stalks you? Why's that?
Catch the Rain
09-30-2008, 12:29 AM
What?! Your mom stalks you? Why's that?
My mom isn't stalking me o_O
His mom is stalking him.
Allegedly.
Prince_of_Hearts
09-30-2008, 12:29 AM
That's what I meant XP
Wow. I would like, ban all cookies to kh-vids if my mom stalked me. I mean, offline is better than being stalked. But anyways, try to tell her that you mean no harm on kh vids. then maybe she will stop harassing you
TheMuffinMan
10-03-2008, 07:09 PM
I have a stalker on this site, it's a girl, and it's also my mother. She's been following me around on the site for 2 weeks now. I need some help. What should I do?
You're grounded. Go to your room and I'll be up in a minute.
Mehgahtraun
10-03-2008, 07:19 PM
I already know who it is. I know! Bring down her rep as much as possible! Her name is Miriam. I've confirmed it.
Misty
10-03-2008, 07:50 PM
Sorry, Black Winged Angel, but I'm going to have to ask you to edit your post ( or I can do it ;D ) she has as much of a right to be here as you, even if her intentions are a little... odd.
LongAndRandomUserNameFTW
10-03-2008, 08:01 PM
This is weird. I am not sure what to say, maybe it's something you did online?
♥AL90♥
10-05-2008, 02:05 AM
Really it's not okay to stalk people online. I'm actually pretty sure that's invasion of privacy. It's not like you're giving out your address or phone number. If you have an alias like my buddy spaz then no one's going to stalk you.
Ugh if there's something I hate more than the Jonas Brothers and their overly obsessive fans it's clingy parents tsk tsk...
xDD
Wow...now that's what I call Super-Internet-Parental-Control! Create an account at KHV so you know just how much your boy likes Kingdom Hearts! O:!! Well, since she's been stalking you regularly for two weeks now, I think she's probably noticed this particular thread by now, and either she will stop stalking you to some degree or just give you a lecture about it later. Also considering CtR has probably talked with her by now, I can safely assume that the stalking problem subsided?
Repliku
10-05-2008, 10:01 AM
I do think the mom needs to be talked to in order to help alleviate her worries that this site promotes some bad ideals. However, I think the way people are reacting in this thread shows that you aren't getting things from the parent's point of view.
Many parents have just outright banned their kids from being on -any- forums where they may encounter things because they are over-protective. This one is simply checking things out and seeing exactly what types of people her son hangs around and to ensure he's not doing anything wrong that would merit some talking to. A parent who takes responsibility is hardly a stalker, in most cases. She saw something she didn't like and may be going overboard but this thread really doesn't show her that things are okay here.
If your mom wants to talk to someone, I would volunteer to talk to her after CtR does in order to help quell things and explain the atmosphere some to her. There definitely isn't anything here that kids would not be exposed to at school and well..less is actually said here than at school in the ways of profanity and violence. Perhaps she just needs to be acclimated to the site and then she will feel more secure. Really, in a way you lucked out that she didn't just ban you from the site instead, so you might just want to give her a break.
Crumpet
10-05-2008, 10:15 AM
All I can think of in this discussion is that she is concerned about your welfare. I mean sure getting stalked on the internet would be a little irratating, but she's only doing this for your own good.. or she thinks she is. How old are you?, If your getting old enough to leave, she may be worried that you'll leave. If your not, she may be worried about internet dating and we all know where that usually leads to.
I actually think she sould be on here. If she see's what a nice and calm place this is, she may calm down a little herself. I mean my mum got worried when she noticed I go on here a lot, but she saw I was with my friend [ who also had an account on this site but left ], she calmed down and got over it.
Just let her be for a bit, give her a month tops, if she doesn't get off, ask her why. If she's concerned, then she's worried about you, if she is confused.... it will be obvious that she has become and addict too!!
Ansem59
10-05-2008, 04:03 PM
lately, I have had a suspicious feeling I've been being stalked by a family member... it's only a suspision though...
Rainshine
02-04-2009, 07:23 PM
1: How do you know she's stalking you anyway?
2: talk to her, seriuosly, tell her that she's acting EXTREMELY immature if she won't even let her son be onlin without watching every single letter he types T__T
3: Why the heck is she stalking you anyway?!
PS. sorry if some of these questions has allready been asked, I'm too lazy to read the entire thread x'D
Why would you necro-bump a thread where there is probably no longer any issues? And please use smaller font.
...Well that was a stupid bump.
EDIT: Got beaten to it. >: O
♥AL90♥
02-05-2009, 02:17 AM
inb4lock
edit: *facepalm @ tanapanda
Tana_Panda
02-05-2009, 02:20 AM
Um.... if its your mom why dont you just talk to her?
Misty
02-05-2009, 07:29 PM
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