Need advice on an issue? Not sure how to handle a situation? Here you can ask for advice and support from your peers. Any kind of flaming or hostility will not be tolerated in this section especially; this is a safe place to look for help and guidance from others. Wed, 13 May 2026 21:50:58 +0000 Wed, 13 May 2026 21:50:58 +0000 KH-Vids | Your ultimate source for Kingdom Hearts media https://kh-vids.net/forums/help-with-life.101/ Thu, 07 Feb 2019 23:37:39 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/just-generally-miserable-i-guess.158180/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/just-generally-miserable-i-guess.158180/ invalid@example.com (Lauriam) Lauriam
I've been feeling moderately depressed for just over two years now, starting literally on New Years Day 2017 when I got really sick and miscarried my first...

Just generally miserable I guess]]> 3 Sun, 04 Feb 2018 00:29:19 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/tips-on-preparing-to-go-to-college.156755/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/tips-on-preparing-to-go-to-college.156755/ invalid@example.com (SushiKey) SushiKey 6 Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:01:04 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/tips-to-pull-yourself-out-of-a-depression.155442/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/tips-to-pull-yourself-out-of-a-depression.155442/ invalid@example.com (Fearless) Fearless
But in all seriousness, my depression has been an on again/off again problem for the past ten years. I've had therapy in the past (though I'm not at the moment), and I've been on meds for the better part of two years (though I'm thinking of getting them changed).

I'm definitely a hell of a lot better than I used to be, but sometimes I get into a funk where I can't do anything. Right at the moment, I've got a sink full of dishes, a planner full of homework, and a to-do list a...

Tips To Pull Yourself Out Of A Depression]]> 7 Wed, 09 Aug 2017 21:25:13 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/pain-management-tips.156759/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/pain-management-tips.156759/ invalid@example.com (Laurence_Fox) Laurence_Fox
Here's why. Working my way down.

1. Frequent headaches that sometimes go into migraines. They last for hours in varying degrees. The good ones are gone in an hour or two. The bad ones... I had a migraine that lasted a full 24 hours. During which I could not even wear my glasses or use an ice pack on my head. It was almost like my scalp had become hypersensitive.
2. All these...

Pain Management Tips]]> 3 Fri, 14 Apr 2017 22:36:30 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/help-with-life-rules.156466/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/help-with-life-rules.156466/ invalid@example.com (Aelin) Aelin
The Help with Life section follows the same rules as the...

Help with Life Rules]]> Thu, 30 Mar 2017 14:13:48 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/grief.156408/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/grief.156408/ invalid@example.com (SORA!) SORA!
Obviously I was heartbroken but I thought I'd move on from the grieving process but it's now going into April and I find myself being suddenly stuck with crippling grief to the point where I'm sobbing in bed barely able to breath properly.

Surely I should have been able to move on by now? My grandfather wouldn't have wanted me to be like this.]]> 1 Sat, 18 Mar 2017 19:10:43 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/advice-help-with-a-ride.156354/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/advice-help-with-a-ride.156354/ invalid@example.com (Sara) Sara
I looked everywhere to find this job and it was mostly dumb luck I found it and got hired. It's nearly my dream job with a great supervisor and perfect benefits... But....

I don't have any way to get there. My town banned public transportation years ago, and the buses that do run in the...

Advice/Help with a ride?]]> 4 Fri, 20 Jan 2017 03:58:31 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/how-to-deal-with-the-next-few-days.156092/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/how-to-deal-with-the-next-few-days.156092/ invalid@example.com (Scarred Nobody) Scarred Nobody
My immediate family is made up of Trump supporters, very loud and boastful ones at that. And with the inauguration being tomorrow, I'm sure things are not going to be too...

How to deal with the next few days]]> 1 Fri, 09 Dec 2016 01:06:24 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/strange-nightmare.155642/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/strange-nightmare.155642/ invalid@example.com (Calxiyn) Calxiyn
It's always me another person running away from something - not physically but like, packing our bags and trying to flee my house for example. When we are outside are house trying to reinforce our defences or escape, there are always people in a car or on the side walk just staring at us. They're not scary looking, they're never violent, they just stare, and that tips me and the other person...

Strange Nightmare]]> 2 Wed, 12 Oct 2016 04:01:46 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/thinking-about-going-back-to-college.155428/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/thinking-about-going-back-to-college.155428/ invalid@example.com (-Xero-) -Xero-
Now I'm wanting to go back and try and get a degree in either Game Art & Design and/or Animation. The school I'm looking at is the Art Institute in San Antonio. I know... it's the Art Institute; but I literally have no other options. This is the only school that I can go...

Thinking About Going Back To College]]> 2 Tue, 04 Oct 2016 03:28:53 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/is-it-time-to-get-help.155374/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/is-it-time-to-get-help.155374/ invalid@example.com (Day~Dream) Day~Dream I've had this immense fear of death since I was little. Whenever I saw documentaries about the body or anything anthropology related it would hit from time to time. Not too often though. Although a few months ago when I filled in the form to get my state ID it asked if I wanted to be a donor and that was when it really hit me and has hit me ever since.

It only seems like just yesterday I was in kindergarten then in HS and now I'm in my 20's now and before I...

Is it time to get help?]]> 4 Fri, 30 Sep 2016 11:32:57 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/venting.155375/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/venting.155375/ invalid@example.com (AlexleHoshi) AlexleHoshi
In September of 2014, some of the anime club members went to a con and I noticed she would say how shitting most of the other cosplayers were, and how the...

Venting.]]> 1 Fri, 16 Sep 2016 05:06:43 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/miscommunication-in-a-friendship.155231/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/miscommunication-in-a-friendship.155231/ invalid@example.com (Plums) Plums
Not gonna go over every detail we talked about, but the main points were that we both were doing something that was annoying the other one...

Miscommunication in a Friendship]]> 1 Tue, 13 Sep 2016 19:06:54 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/tips-on-how-to-get-a-job.154881/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/tips-on-how-to-get-a-job.154881/ invalid@example.com (Lauriam) Lauriam five different franchises. I figured some of the mistakes that I made in the interview that might have messed up my chances, but that's still the only interview that I've even had.

And before anyone says it's a tough market, I just want to say, not in my town. There are help-wanted...

Tips on how to get a job?]]> 50 Sun, 24 Jul 2016 00:29:12 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/weird-problem.154860/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/weird-problem.154860/ invalid@example.com (Sara) Sara
I have been roleplaying (Rp'ing) on forums for a long time. I started out with a group of friends who would usually post a few sentences. It lasted for years and I had a ball. I've done another one a few years ago where it again lasted a few years but the posts were varied from a few sentences to several paragraphs.

It seems that no one likes my posting style now, and a lot of people turn me down simply because I don't post as much as they do...

Weird problem...]]> 6 Sat, 02 Jul 2016 00:57:10 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/in-need-of-some-friendly-advice.154647/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/in-need-of-some-friendly-advice.154647/ invalid@example.com (Fearless) Fearless
I have a friend. I'm not going to name names, even though she'll likely never see this, but I have been friends with this person for years and years at this point. We became friends around 8th-9th grade, and we were super close for the majority of high school and our early college years, and I was happy to call her my best friend for a long...

In need of some Friendly Advice]]> 2 Sun, 27 Dec 2015 15:50:46 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/so-like.152205/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/so-like.152205/ invalid@example.com (61) 61
so like]]> 4 Sun, 27 Sep 2015 05:24:35 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/in-a-bit-of-a-jam.151540/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/in-a-bit-of-a-jam.151540/ invalid@example.com (. : tale_wind) . : tale_wind So there's this guy in a fairly large Facebook group I moderate. I offered a listening ear and help when he mentioned problems he's been having, and I don't mind offering those, and sort of befriended him. But I honestly don't feel that close to him, and it seems like almost any time I get on Facebook on my phone he messages me almost instantly to chat. I am not great at one-on-one chitchat, even online, and especially with someone I don't really feel close...

in a bit of a jam]]> 2 Wed, 16 Sep 2015 03:46:00 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/assistance-with-breaking-an-addiction.151447/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/assistance-with-breaking-an-addiction.151447/ invalid@example.com (Glen) Glen
I have a serious addiction to videogames. Surprised? Didn't think so given this is a website centred around a videogame series. The problem I have is I feel compelled to buy something videogame related whenever I have money and am around any stores, and this is a problem...

Assistance with breaking an addiction]]> 4 Mon, 07 Sep 2015 04:46:11 +0000 https://kh-vids.net/threads/need-a-crash-course-on-conversation-skills.151230/ https://kh-vids.net/threads/need-a-crash-course-on-conversation-skills.151230/ invalid@example.com (61) 61
okay so i posted in the spam zone about these two people i met and talked with and kind of hit it off with but that's just the initial meet. what do i do next? how do i talk to them? what type of things do i talk about? how do i keep things interesting? when do i know to stop talking? how do i...

need a crash course on conversation skills]]> 5