Ok i cant take it anymore!!!! i have fake friends. they dont know that i know and how do i tell them that i know and that i dont want friends who pitty me, and that i want real friends who like me and dont care how i dress or wat i say or do? or wat i like for that matter. they only hang with cause i watch a lot of anime and like some animes that they do other than that we have nothing in comon. they just pitty me. and this 1 friend i gave her a braclete 1 day(before i thought she was a fake friend) but i dont really know if shes a fake friend i mean she hangs with me cause she wants 2 but when i tryand talk 2 her she keeps on talking with who ever she was talking 2 before. and plus she wears that braclet i gave her ever singel day ever since i gave it 2 her. so is she a fake friend or not?
do you feel you can tell her anything? does she talk to you the same way you talk to her? do you feel like you could tell them a secret and not have the entire school the next day? those are a few questions i asked my self when i thought i had a "fake friend".... i think you need to think about if they like you for who you are or if they like you for mutual interest ~hope that helps~
How could anyone have fake friends? I feel sorry for you since your put in that position, but you should try and talk to them about it. Don't upset them though, they may take it the wrong way and turn on you. Friends who hang around together because they pitty one of them aren't really friends in my opinion. Try to find things that you both have in common, maybe that will help. I think you need to decide whether or not you want to be friends with them. The friend that you gave the bracelet to and she wears it everyday, that's a sign of friendship isnt it? It can't be out of pitty that she wears it, she must really see you as a friend I'm sure. Anyway, goodluck ;D
Weeeeell... friends have their flaws, this I know. ^^; Maybe she doesn't know that she's talking over you, or feels the need to talk to those friends or people since... well, she might not see them everyday. I had a friend who pittied me, and basically blammed me for a behavior phase I went through a few months ago. It turned out, I had to start ignoring her because of the negative vibes she gave off while I was talking to her. I dunno if that applies to you, but maybe try to find the friends that care of you. Maybe go up and talk to someone you don't know that well. Who knows, you guys might end up as best buddies. 8D Still keep your other friends though, and let them know that you care. Or if other wise, then they're not your friends if they don't support that you made a new friend. 8D8 Good luck!
