I dont know what to do

Exactly. Guys can be sneaky. And especially since you've only known him for 2 1/2 weeks... it's easy to be fooled at the beginning of a relationship when you're all caught up in the moment.

 

Don't blame it all on the girls, most girls are afraid to say no, because most girls want to please everyone, and give everyone what they want, like me. But everyone knows right from wrong, everyone knows it's wrong to make someone feel pressurised into something and everyone knows it's wrong to do something you don't feel is right. But if it's the guy pressurising them, then I would give them a slap, dump them and walk off, simple as that, if the guy truley cares enough he will ask once and if they say no, he'll wait until they bring it up or bring it up when the girl is more confident with them. But nothing is wrong with thinking about it or even dreaming about it, that's just hormones.

 

No i wasn't trying to blame it all on girls... guys are just as responsible and it takes two to make a bad idea..... and i agree, that is the right and noble thing to do, i don't think that i will slap anyone, because i don't hit girls.....or guys unless they hit a girl and i defend them...

 

Why hasn't this person replied yet? Has she even read this thread after she posted the first time?

And obviously everyone's unanimous answer is

NO FREAKING WAY!

 

I don't think that anyone has replied to it yet because, they don't care or already know about their choices...ha April Fools!!!! no, i was serious...

 

i've really thought about it more now....and im not gonna do it...my friends arent pressuring me and neither is my bf...i think it was just a crazy thing....but im not doing it just now...my mum might have to take me to the doctors becasuse of my problem...but deffinatly not...maybe in time i will...he wont mind at all...thanks for the replies this also helped me make up my mind....i know it sounded idiotic but im not stupid...which is why im not doing it...everyone is right....im only fifteen so i dont think i will...but its not peer pressure or anything....plus,im just too stressed to do anything at the moment because of my up coming exams...thanks again for your help, i really didnt want to seem childish and idiotic. :(

 

You're not stupid, you made the right choice. Life without a baby is hard enough in high school. I'm glad your friends and bf don't care.

 

Any boyfriend or friend whos gonna pressure you into sex need to be shot... Seriously... It's good that you can say you dont want to... Im going through the same thing but its kinda reversed... I feel like im pressuring my girlfriend into it but then i think about it and i say to myself "WHAT THE ****!?" I have two friends who hooked up and they have had sex already... They havent been going out for a year yet so its kinda pathetic... If your not ready, your not ready... Don't bother with people who are gonna pressure you into stuff...

 

Don't be a victim to peer pressure! you have only been going out with this guy for three weeks. Not to mention it still sounds like you are in high school still. Now is not the time to... you know. for all you know, your friend could be lieing to you about doing it with her boyfriend. Most people in high school do lie about that. Now is not the time, wait until later.