We don't talk enough

Discussion in 'The Spam Zone' started by Peace and War, Jan 31, 2012.

  1. Peace and War Bianca, you minx!

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    Why is that?
    We get on swimmingly but why is it we don't talk with each other?

    Then again, isn't that what Voxli is for? Is that still even going?
     
  2. Fork These violent delights have violent ends

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    You're not exactly the easiest person to talk to.
    And nah, Voxli died, but only because the website itself isn't working anymore.
     
  3. Peace and War Bianca, you minx!

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    Truly?

    I wish to be approachable, and I try to be honest as possible without sounding disrespectful.
    Not enough, I suppose?
     
  4. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    Its the eye patch. Scares folk away.
     
  5. Fork These violent delights have violent ends

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    Naw, that's perfect. Just take some initiative I guess.
    Also, I can't tell if you're talking about one specific person or KHV as a whole.
     
  6. Misty gimme kiss

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    Well the lack of contact details makes it difficult, lol.

    But I mean, you can always start a "talk about whatever" thread in Spam, they don't tend to last very long; inevitably a few people take it over discussing something that only a select few find interesting, while everyone else goes off and makes their own threads in order to compete. IT'S THE CIRCLE OF LIFEEEE
     
  7. Peace and War Bianca, you minx!

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    Ah, of course... Pirates got the same stick. it's Eyeist, I tell you. Shouldn't judge someone by their skin, or race, or religion, or what they wear on their eyes, I say.

    If I was talking about one member, I would likely name them, or allude to their name. I have not, I was just addressing whoever read the thread, since it's rather difficult to guess who will ever reply to these threads, which is why I use 'we' instead of a particular name. It adds something of a personal level to it and can still be applied to all.

    By take the initiative, I suppose you mean go in and start any old conversation with someone to get the ball rolling?
    It's not like i'm unreachable, we have PMs, Visitor messages and an e-mail address that are all viable options that this lovely site provides to promote conversation. ANd Iwas referring to a more verbal type of communication, but I suppose Skype and the such have that type of thing covered.
    I'll admit, I haven't changed my profile in about 3 years or more so maybe I should change that? *goes and does it*
     
  8. Noroz I Wish Happiness Always Be With You

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    You scare them with this
    [video=youtube;P8R1TXNSoJ8]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P8R1TXNSoJ8[/video]
     
  9. Peace and War Bianca, you minx!

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    Whoa.....something sensable in the spam-zone? This is new to me.

    I'm always open for a conversation with someone, but starting one has never been my strong suit. I know I could just type, "Hey there" or "How are you", but these just seem weak starters for me. Am I the only one that thinks this way?