What do you find attractive?

Guys
Long walks on the beach blah blah blah
Appearance:
-Dark hair and light eyes (Dark brown and blue are my favorite combo, but I also dig brown eyes with dark hair)
-Nice teeth/nice smile (this doesn't mean perfectly straight, but really yellow and extremely crooked are just a turnoff)
-Taller than me, but preferably not a skyscraper.
-Slim and muscular (not the type of person who's got muscles on their muscles though.)
-Dresses nice and looks presentable (don't look like you just rolled out of bed, but don't take longer to get ready than I do then it's just weird)
-As for skin tone I don't care as long as it's a real tan (which is more of a girl's problem anyways). I usually like pale or a little tanner than I am though, since I'm probably the whitest kid ever.
-Tattoos and piercings are usually fine, but it depends where the tattoo or piercing is. (I hate septums, snakebites/angel bites, neck tattoos, nipple piercings are just stupid)
-Gauges don't bother me if they're smaller than 00 (That's pretty much when they can't heal or close up again, but still aren't that obnoxious)

Personality:
-good sense of humor
-similar taste in music
-confident but not obnoxious
-kind/compassionate
-similar interests
-an intellectual (I want to be able to have a conversation with the person)
-not overly shallow or judgmental
-Drinking is okay if you're not over drinking. Alcoholics = no fun
-Smoking cigarettes = no go. (Sorry, it's just plain gross. I took a drag once and I don't understand the appeal at all. Ick.) But as a side note, hookah is okay with me as long as it's not everyday.
-Weed = fine unless it's an everyday thing. Any other drugs I have an extreme problem with.
-Respects women. SOOO IMPORTANT. Any guy who refers to women as "*****es" or acts like a general idiot with his friends to impress them just isn't cool. I like romance, so I'm not really into the whole male-dominance-sex-drive-with-everyone-with-a-vagina thing.
-Respects me most importantly.
-Honest and trustworthy.
-Not insane
-Understanding
-Finds love more important than sex

Pretty much all I can think of for now, but I might add more later

 

Please continue Kitty, I want to see the qualities of the man/woman/alien that can tame the beast that purs and meows everyday.
To be honest, you're the only person so far that has said that they wouldn't mind a 'bit I meat' on their partner. I respect that, not many people actually say that, and I would have to agree, I hate cuddling with boney people.

I would need a lass that has a bit of meat and substance on her as well, adds a bit of a something comforting.

 

Basketball players? Lol

Ha! I c wat u did thar.

Hmm...I don't know. I mean, surely I have preferences and I can list them all over here. But I just don't feel like it and in the end, I feel it doesn't matter to me as much. That's not to say I don't care about appaerance or particular traits.

I find attractive someone that will love me. Really love me, that no matter If one year has gone past or five have gone past, they'll still be there just like I'd hope to be there for them. That we'll find joy in each others mundane and wordly things no matter what. If one of us burps or farts, that we can laugh it up. That when my room looks like the coming of the apocalypse, it won't be a big deal. A person who will grab my body and just hug it, squish it, and say that it's the best piece of meat they've had and will ever want to have xD

That none of us will be above the other, and instead of acting like two individuals, we'd be planning for a lifetime together. Not only figuratively, but also literally. So in that moment when life disappoints me, I can simply just put my head around their neckline and cry as if it was my safe haven. Just like mine will be theirs.

I guess i find attractive a person who will not give up on me.

 

oh i like this, okay for my guys out there:
appearance wise:

• dark features so like hair or eyes, though i do think a guy with dark hair and blue eyes is soooooo nice like damn break me off a piece of that
• a nice jaw/bone structure
• taller than me, which isn't too hard since i'm 5'2"
• lives a healthy lifestyle so it will keep me motivated as well
• muscular but not like…bodybuilder muscular…or like hollister model muscular, i'm not into that whole "model boy" look
• dresses well/has a good sense of style (i reaallllyyy don't like sloppy appearances, i put effort into what i look like, you should too at least to an extent)
• clean shaven, i don't mind like stubble or five o'clock shadow or stuff like that but pleaaaaaase no beards ; - ;

personality:

• respectful towards women
• one who will understand the hard work i do
• playful and flirty
• loving, because i'm into that whole disney fantasy stuff you know chivarly
• down to earth and chill, not really anyone high maintenance/high energy all the time
• i also don't really like anyone who smokes, weed or cigs it's just unattractive to me i don't know
• drinking is fine, but not like "oh man let's get wasted every weekend look at my beer gut oh yeah oh yeah"
• NO BROS. like i can't handle the whole bro status thing
• funny to the max, i love funny guys who can relate to my interests
• someone who likes to game like me n_n
• obviously sharing the same interests is a must
• someone who will believe in me no matter what. if the whole world is like so competative then i want a good support system you know?
• working towards a goal/has a really good job they are going to college for
• like i mentioned above, going to school/being intelligent on a diverse amount of issues (current events, history, etc.)
• i think it would be really cool to know someone who speak another language like me, i find languages really interesting
• my friends like him, cause like you know how it is, gotta be approved by da council of my gal pals hehe
• HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY TBH
• no cheating please, thanks
  
  or if you just look like cillian murphy i'll take that too hehe

 

Attractive for me
-Good at video games (OMFG that's hot)
-Same interest's as me
-Brunette's
-Brown Eyes
-Overly obsessed with me
-Not obsessed with sex
-cuddly and likes kissing

Unattractive
-Druggie
-Cheater
-Liar
-Feels the need to impress everyone
-Fake
-Clothes that show too much skin
-Can't hold a rational discussion
-Someone who can't take the truth

 

Things I find attractive in a guy:

• Confidence
• Smarts
• Can make me laugh even when I'm at my worst (takes talent for that)
• If he's into Kingdom Hearts and Resident Evil XD
• Doesn't make fun of my interests
• Suave, and flirty (but not w/ other girls lol)
• Caring and understanding
• Patience
• Honesty
• Knows what he wants and doesn't beat around the bush
• When he's the romantic type
• Thoughtful
• And if he's cute x3 (normally I don't go for just appearances, but hey, if he's cute then that's a bonus :D)
• Modesty
• A great smile
• Great style
• Polite, and a gentleman

What I find unattractive:

• A liar
• A Cheater
• Selfish
• Lazy
• Smokes/ does drugs
• Get's around (if you know what I mean)
• The pressuring type (especially about sex)
• Is never there for you
• Ignores me (especially for another girl -_-)
• Too clingy and needy
• Disrespectful
• Wears his pants up to his knees (I know i'm exaggerating but you get what I mean XD)
• A show off
• Talks about himself WAYYYY too much
• Doesn't take no for an answer

 

This is a list I made nearly two years ago, now. I've not yet been able to make anything more accurate/specific:

• Taller than me, which is not difficult because I'm only 5'2. However, one of the (few) guys who have actually asked me out was below that.
• Decent appearance, I'm not looking for a greek god or anything but hygiene/normal clothing would be nice.
• Good sense of humor, I am hardly ever serious and need someone to laugh at my jokes. :v
• Has to be a bit nerdy, I live/breathe Star Wars and they must join in.
• Okay music taste.
• Not a Conservative, uuugh (<-- I am willing to relent on this if you just let me pretend I am always right)

I always think these are pretty low?
There are, of course, other things, as well as physical appearances I prefer over others, but I don't know them well enough myself to really list them (though I do find super tall dudes attractive ._. ). As long as you don't look like you just came off the poop truck I will probably be alright. Body types I am not too choosy with? I mean obscenely overweight is not really attractive (I am talking 700 pound man overweight) to me, but if you have a good personality I don't really give a ****.


Overall, though, I would say someone who understands me and is patient with me. I am kind of a handful and a bitch so really anyone that is willing to take that on gets points. ._.


As for the in the past question... this is really embarrassing for me to talk about but I had a serious thing for astronauts. It is still kind of there, lol. I mean it's not anything serious just a lingering childhood fantasy. Any kind of astronaut, I just loved the idea of this adventurous and brave and strong fella coming back from space to me. ;____; and oh god brb hiding forever

 

Since I made fun of Misty in MSN, I promised I would make it up to her by posting here. I hate when someone asks me this because it's embarrassing ;__________;

• Mid/Average Height: (like, between 5'2" and 5'10". Just anything that is not taller than me, since I'm like 6 feet. :v )
  
• Decent Appearance: I'm not looking for like, Mila Kunis or anything (but omfg <3333), but a girl who takes care of their appearance. I usually take about half an hour to get ready, even though my clothing choice is just shirt + jeans, haha, but yeah, hygiene is a v. big thing for me. Also, I like a girl with meat on her bones, though I have also crushed on somewhat bony girls before xD
  
• Good Sense of Humor: A girl who can get my jokes, and who can dish them out herself.
  
• Intelligence: Not asking for a fem!Sherlock (but damn that would be hawt), but someone who I can have a discussion with about things every now and then is swell.
  
• Music Taste: Preferably, someone who listens to, or at least, would be willing to listen to the type of music I do. As well as recommend her own songs for me to check out. Which basically, is nothing that is really too mainstream. :L
  
• Liberal: No Conservatives :L
  
• Body Shape: Not 700 pounds, but also not like, 2. I don't really care about bust/butt size or anything, so I guess that's it for this, lol? But yeah, meat on bones at least. o;

Personality:

• The humor from above.
• Liberal in beliefs.
• Kind to others/me.
• Likes to discuss things.
• Similar interests as me.
• Willing to put up with my deadpan snark, lol. Not horribly optimistic or overly negative.
• Likes to go out every now and then and do things (like a picnic, or go paintballin' or even just having a water balloon fight in the park). Cuddling and stuff; just someone who is willing to be physical, but never let it rule the relationship.
• Confidence.
• Able to spend time apart from each other.
• Not clingy, but also someone who I can talk to frequently.
• Respectful.
• Has to get along with my friends/family.
• Intelligent.
• Polite, but not overly.
• Critical, but not condescending.

Also,

Artistic: Even though I don't talk about it much, I really really like the arts, and someone who would discuss them with me is really amazing and <3333

And according to people at my school, I apparently tend to crush on "adorable" girls, who are "like mini fairy cutie pies".

I would contest it
but it's true :L

happy misty? ;____________;

 

I would fly you to the moon and back if you'd be, if you'd be my bb

the what.. hahahaha

 

Ooohhh...well having many minature crushes, I can tell you what I find attractive in a guy:

-MUST be taller than me, I'm a fairly average height girl, so thats not so hard...
-I have always gone for green or blue eyes, however in saying that my boyfriend's are brown
-Hair must be long-ish...I don't care much for army-short hair...anything to about shoulder length is good. The longer and straighter the hair, the more attractive :P
-Facial Hair. Don't ask why. I seem to have a thing for it, and tend to like guys that have a small beard or a little mustache or something
-Abs are optional *drools*
-I usually like a guy that can give me a really nice hug, like a giant teddy bear! So yeah...a little fat is good for me :P
-MUST play video games. As it stands I'm a better gamer than my boyfriend, I don't know how I feel about that...
-I usually like the nerdy, geeky, awkward types of guys. My taste is kind of quirky...I don't go for the guys that most girls go for, its just a thing
-They need to be confident...shy guys get really annoying after a while
-They need to share some of my interests, and be able to have a good conversation with me involving thought and stuff. I don't gossip, I don't talk about shopping, thats stupid!
-I need a guy who is there for me
-MUST be some form of musician (preferably guitarist, but whatever works :P)
-MUST have good music taste

What I find unnatractive:
-smoking (der)
-Overweight
-Pasty white skin tone
-Obsessive texting (like 'why arent you replying?' every 2 minutes -_-)
-Obsessive cuteness (the corniness makes me want to puke sometimes)
-Skinny guys

Examples:
These two: http://blog.zap2it.com/frominsidethebox/phil-phillips-colton-dixon.jpg
This guy: http://images.wikia.com/american-idol/images/9/9b/Casey-abrams-2011-275x366.jpg
Yes I like American Idol, get off my case!
http://www.matthewgraygublerfans.com/SmilingMatthew.jpg
http://images.picturesdepot.com/photo/c/criminal_minds_morgan-2245.jpg
...and Criminal Minds...

 

You're the first person I know who actually likes facial hair.

Shame I just shaved >.>

(and misty you pretty much described me ;>)
except the whole astronaut thing i wish i was one

 

Appearance
- Preferably my height or slightly shorter, but anything other than overly tall or overly short is fine.
- Preferably around my age, but she can be a bit younger or a bit older.
- I like a wild look: unkempt, messy hair and scars other than burn marks are a plus. (I'm weird like that.)
- Some boobage at least. I don't want to look like I'm dating an 11-year-old.
- Decent figure in general. Whales or broomsticks needn't apply.
- Sexy clothes can be a plus if not exaggerated. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind it if a girl looks like she's heading over to the skate ramp, but there's nothing wrong with wearing a tank top in the summer.
- I don't get the whole "glasses are hawt" thing. Glasses can be stylish and they won't make an attractive girl ugly, but I don't see how they can make someone more attractive than they already are. Nerdy glasses especially are a huge turn-off.
- Make-up is fine if it's used to emphasize your beauty rather than cover up your ugliness. When a girl overdoes it, I automatically assume that they are doing it for the latter reason.
- I love it when a girl flashes a smile the moment she sees me. It drives me crazy in a good way. Heck, I like it when a girl smiles often in general.
- Being flirty with me is a plus. I'd flirt right back at her.

Personality
- DO NOT SMOTHER ME. Seriously.
- Intelligence, but I have to be careful what I'm saying here. I find it embarassing when I get outsmarted by my crush in just about every area. I want to stand next to her, not below her or in her shadow. But yeah, I like intelligent women. Also, I like discussing things in a civilized manner, and I'd prefer it if my partner likes it too.
- A degree of selfishness is actually commendable, more so than being a goody-two-shoes at least. Similarly to the intelligence thing, it makes me feel inferior when my partner is holier than thou, which is something I'd rather not be confronted with. Respect is necessary and kindness is a definite plus, but she doesn't have to have a heart of gold. I don't have one, why should she?
- She must be at least tolerant of my drinking habits if not accepting. I drink but I'm not a drunkard, and I will not be treated as one.
-Iniative. She won't have to take it every single time to be sure, but she should take it at least every once in a while. And by that I mean in all fields.
- A good sense of humor is also a plus, by which I don't necessarily mean that she has to be good at cracking jokes herself (but if she is, all the better). I just mean that she should put up with me trying to be funny. After all, I'm usually doing it to make her smile.

Interests
- Shouldn't be exactly the same, but can't be miles apart either. I like learning about my partner's interests and broadening my horizons, and I'd prefer it if she did so too. That being said, I like extensive conversations about mutual interests. Let me put it this way... If you like RPGs, but prefer shooters over RPGs, that's fine. If you like punk rock, but prefer metal over punk rock, that's fine. Ideally, she'd have the same interests as me but in different priorities, or allocated differently.
- That being said, I will respect her interests I don't share, so they may not matter all that much. As long as conversations don't run dry because of a lack of mutual interests.
- Whatever her interests are, she shouldn't talk obsessively about them or try to force them on me.
- Smoking is a turn-off but not a critical one if you only smoke in my absence or at least not blow the smoke in my face.
- I'd be a hypocrite if I was against her drinking alcohol, so I'm not. In fact, I think I'd feel more comfortable if my girlfriend isn't afraid to drink. If we're gonna make fools out of ourselves, might as well do it together.

 

Cute face, fun personality, good mood.

By cute face I mean someone I take one look at and melt away like hot butter. She doesn't have to be thin or a supermodel, just cute.

I like people with fun personalities, because i'm often depressed. I need someone to cheer me up (not like my last few relationships)

By good mood, i'm talking about someone who knows how to have a good time and doesn't get angry or jealous at any given chance.

Oh oh oh, and maybe I could add this. I'd like a relationship with someone who won't obsessively stalk me, though won't let me run free range (then it would feel like they didn't care)

 

Oh this should be fun no laughing at my choices or..... I KEEL YOU!!

Attractive:
Must must must be short: like under 5ft 1in short period (im over 6ft and eye level or taller is just a turn off)
I like girls who are a bit of pervs just like me
bad habits i dont know why but atleast one bad habit (smoking, drinking ok)
CANNOT be overly religious this is absolute
i like somewhat violent girls (not too much mind you)
long hair (atleast shoulder length)
pale is best or light skinned etnicity
good smile
kinda clingy but not every 3sec texter
I like girls who are not muscled but not fat

unattractive
tall
dark skin or tanned (i compare tanning to white girls trying to be black it is a turn off)
too calm
muscled
too fat
femi-nazi
too obsessed with looks
ghetto ***** (you know what i mean by that if not then its not about you)
too positive
way too nice

 

Accents. Oh gee guys, British,Russian,Irish, any kind but Californian ones-I hear them too much here where I am.

 

hmmmmm.......let's see.....guys....
Looks:
-blue or green eyes are my favorite but any eye color really :)
-any color hair is fine but brown and blonde are preferable
-light or tan skin
-a little muscle, not the body builder type......(can give me a piggy-back ride haha^-^)
-taller than me
-dresses nicely....some style....not model nice, but t-shirt/jeans (that doesn't hang past their knees) (just not sloppy)
-not super skinny, but lean
-healthy
-good hygene

Personality:
-caring about his family, friends, me
-works hard
-playful
-kind
-great sense of humor
-shares the same interests (loves gaming as much as I do and movies)
-likes the arts (not much of a sports type)
-motivating (doesn't give up)
-intelligent (not a genius)
-handy
-supporting
-likes me for who I am
-doesn't care if I have guy friends
-gives me personal space if needed
-honest!!
-not obsessed with sex
-confident
-patient
-polite
-enjoys going places with me
-doesn't get angry too easily

Turn-offs:
-does drugs
-drinks
-cusses a lot
-loses his temper easily
-cheats
-lies


that's a few.....mainly I would want someone who will always be there if I need them.....someone who would do for me what I would do for them :)

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Not sure what this makes me but:

Girls:

Highly intelligent (No airheads please)

Strong Will and desire

Savy (Someone I can talk to and not feel intimidated)

Open-minded


Guys:

Cheeky (Crack Jokes and kid around even at me)

Strong-willed

Leadership

Highly Intelligent

Something of a six-pack

Not sure if this is right but, Very Passionate and cuddles/lays down on me and snuggles me. I love it so.

Bonus points for being an anime nerd/geek as well. Nothing turns me on more.


Dislikes: (This applies to both)

Weak-willed (Won't stand up for themselves)

Slobbish

Too muscular

Big Boobs


That's pretty much it, I'm not a very high standard person.

 

Yeah dont ask me why...I just generally find a bit of facial hair more attractive :P

 

I don't really care all too much for appearance.

Personality-wise:
- Nice
- Trustworthy
- Funny
- Caring

and I really like it when I can talk to someone about anything without fear of being judged.

Interests would be vidya games.

 

Well, for friendships i suppose i'd like the person to be able to take a joke but be able to be serious when needed. I can get along with plenty of people if i try.

For a relationship?
Just having a pulse will do!
Well, same qualities as friendship, but i like it if the person is just a LITTLE clingy. Not so clingy that they're obsessed with me, NOT LOOKING AT ANYONE IN PARTICULAR, but just enough that they show they care. I like if she listens to me aswell, puts up with my moodiness, appearance doesn't matter to me too much.