What do you find attractive?

Hehehe, might as well give this a go ~

Appearance (this is what I find attractive, not what I look for in a potential boyfriend) :

• Eyes. I'm not particular in colour (though I do tend to love blues, hazels, greens or greys) but they have to have character.
• Tall. I love guys who are like, over 6 foot but I'd look so weird since I'm only 5'1". But taller than me is just dandy~ Which isn't at all difficult.
• Skinny. I don't like buff guys. Muscles kind of really scare me. I love guys who are skinny - not thin, skinny. Like, flat stomachs and bony joints and I don't really know just skinnyness.
• Bone-y features. Mostly collar bones and hip bones. That kind of thing. I love bones. Oh my.
• Not particular in hair at all. It's got to have style, but everyone has style - so no one has a problem. Yus.
• Tattoos and Piercings. People think I'd only find people with them attractive but no. I don't really care if you have them or not. I do not like it when people have too much of these though.

Personality :

• Good natured. A boy who knows how to treat himself and others with respect and goodness is always sexy.
• Honest. Trust is obviously incredibly important.
• Likes to cuddle. I love cuddling. In relationships, I would go as far as cuddling and sweet kisses. I don't like the thought of racy things and whatever. However, cuddles are absolutely magical. I would love to cuddle for like a week haha. Ouch.
• Doesn't smoke, take alcohol, do drugs or party hard excessively or at all. I can understand trying but using them as a vice or to kill free time is always a turn-off. Especially parties with alcohol.
• Would spend a night watching movies and eating popcorn and cuddling instead of going to a night out in the town.
• Musical/Artistic is always so attractive.
• A good sense of humor. One that can make me smile and laugh on the worst of my days.
• Likes to stay healthy.
• Loves animals (cats ahem.)
• Video gamer/Otaku is always a bonus.
• Open to change or is ready to compensate for differences.
• Enjoys roadtrips or going out to spend time with nature and the lovely things in our world. Be it climbing mountains, swimming in beaches, and other activities.
• Passionate. About his work, his interests, hobbies, etc. It's nice seeing guys who are driven, hard working and determined.

And that is all I can think of now ~ c:

 

Is it weird that I like both guys and girls? I guess and wish not.
- Brown or hazel eyes. I don't know, just depends
- Different, I don't like someone that just blends in to the crowd, in that case they wouldn't stand out.
- Intelligent and bookwormy, I loathe people who claims to not read.
- Has some similar interests.
- Hair? I don't care. Hey, that rhymed.
- Has a good sense of humour, being way too serious is just bleh.
- Someone I can tell everything to, and be comfortable around them.
- Someone who doesn't surround him/herself in a strong aura of confidence. But not too insecure.
- Honest.
- Cute.

 

No, it's not trust me. I like both Guys and girls but I tend to lean more towards guys.

 

I find these attractive

1. blue eyes that glisten, I don't mind brown either but not a fan of green
2. brunette with long and straight hair
3. tall, but not taller than me
4. small cup size (I'm weird like that XD)
5. laughs to my jokes
6. makes me laugh
7. enjoys my company
8. we MUST have similar interests
9. doesn't wear extremely reveling clothing
10. is Christian
11. has to be a country lover
12. enjoys quading
13. lets me have bro time

Dislikes
Has piercings or has extremely noticeable tattoos
Smoking is a big no no
plays hard to get (cant stand that at all)
large amount of music library is Hip Hop and Pop
untrustworthy and lying

 

Hoo boy.

Attractive.
-Nice
-Has interests in gaming (like my lady friend)
-Eyes aren't really an important matter to me
-Short hair with red hair is an instant turn on for me, but any other color is fine
-white teeth, or at least not completely yellow teeth
-Good sense of humor
-dat ass

Unattractive.
-Deep voice
-Smoking/Drinking/Drugging
-Taller than me, since I'm six feet.
-Really skinny
-loudness
-Lies
-Impatience

 

Yesss:
- Taller than me.
- Strong, athletic.
- Dominant.
- Playful, have a sense of humor.
- Fit, also nice skin.
- Suaveee.
- Nice neck.
- Nice smell.
- Nice smile <3
- Charismatic, have confidence in himself and others.
- Photogenic even while taking sh:Dt.
- Likes to keep his hair tidy.
- Likes to keep everything else tidy.
- Loyal, but also has sense/will get rebellious if needed.
- Tolerant.
- Easy to talk to, and;
- Cares about others as much as he cares about himself <3

Noooo:
- Lunatic, lol.
- Do smokes and drugs.
- A pessimist.
- Nerdy to a point that he doesn't care about everything else.
- Short tempered. Won't be a good match with me.
- Rarely showers, can't take care of himself.
- Liar.
- A midget.
- Loves to chicken out of problems.
- Losers.
- Losers.
- Losers.

Though I can tolerate the no's as far as being friends.
:3

 

The most attractive thing for me is a sweet, yet goofy smile. I don't know, its just something I love. Joseph Gordon-Levitt's is a good example of the kind of smile I like.

When it comes to eyes, I really LOVE green and hazel, but I also find eyes pretty in general, so any color works.

An interesting personality. I think its really attractive when someone is goofy or silly, but overall sweet. I'm really attracted to the character of Laguna Loire from Final Fantasy VIII. That is the EXACT personality I find the most attractive.

As far as looks are concerned, I don't like guys who are "pretty" like Justin Beiber or Taylor Lautner. I like guys who are kinda rough-looking, I guess, and of course, have a great smile.

Finally, I find a good singing voice, (especially tenor!) INCREDIBLY sexy. Just sayin'.

 

What makes one, is , a person that is honest, helpful, kind etc...

 

Attractive: curly hair, freckles, gray/blue/hazel/green eyes, light brown hair, dimples, full figure(not too skinny, not too large), curvy, plus size figure, larger front teeth, easy to talk to, cool tattoos, nice piercings, tunnels/plugs, not overly optimistic, skateboards, goes to shows, doesn't care about clothing, as long as it's decent, and similar music taste

Unattractive: Greasy hair, smell bad, is a jerk to everyone, pretentious, uncaring, dishonest, excessively does drugs, drinks too much, unsanitary, stupid tattoos(up to my discretion), eyebrow rings, applies tacky makeup, spirals/tapers, snobby about fashion, bullies,

 

I've got to agree with this 100%. I don't want someone overly clingy but I want someone who will actually care for me and show they do on a regular basis (of which I would reciprocate) but mainly just someone I can just be myself around and can just laugh at anything.

Appearances:
(I don't have many specific appearance traits I normally just see someone and am either attracted to them or not)

• I've always found stumble very attractive but it's not a neccessity
• I don't like the stereotypically good looking guys, I think they are good looking but when I'm looking for a relationship they wouldn't be my first choice if I'm honest
• I think I find darker hair more attractive than light but preferences can change depending on the individual
• I have found that I am attracted to curly hair and the unkempt look
• They don't have to be mega tall or super skinny or super musclely- I do find the skinny look very attractive though but it's not needed
• More defined and prominent features are quite attractive but again not needed

Personality:

• Good sense of humour- someone who will not only put up with my jokes but enjoy them or at least enjoy what I find funny as well
• Confidence is key, they don't have to be the sort of person who can talk to anyone but a bit of confidence in themselves in a must
• They don't have to be completely macho, I sometimes find the more feminine types more attractive
• Someone who will care for me and take care of me
• They don't have to be a genius but just someone I can have a conversation with
• I find people who I can just talk to for hours on end without realising how much time has passed attractive
• Someone who doesn't treat me like a pathetic girl that always needs protecting- sometimes I like it but I am my own woman and can take care of myself at times
• Someone who knows how to have a good time (without alcohol- I have no problem with them being able to have fun with alcohol but being able to do so without as well is a must)
• Someone who I can just cuddle with
• I don't know why but I have always found a big attractive in people who study english... I have no idea why O.o (not a neccessity of course)
• Someone who shares some interests with me- not all of them as I like diversity and to be introduced to new things but I want to be able to talk to them abotu some things
• Someone who will talk about the problems we have and not bottle them away
• Someone who will put up with my constant ramblings about the things they love, I find it quite attractive if they have a passion as well that I may or may not have :D
• Someone who doesn't overly care what others think- so if we have a lulzy time and I dared him to go skipping down the highstreet with me then they would xD I don't know if I ever would do that but just in case I see the urge arise

Turn offs:

• Vanity- the biggest turn off ever, I can't stand it
• Arrogance too
• Cheating- I think it's disrespectful and horrible
• Smoking
• I have no problem with a bit of drink as I know it can be very fun but I don't want someone who relies on alcohol to have a good time or is an alcoholic
• Obsessed with sex- like someone who would sleep with anyone just to have it, I like the thought of it being special (they don't have to be a virgin as I think that would be quite unlikely but I want them to respect the act)
• Someone who is solely interested in looks and butts/boobs and with rate a girl just on her body
• Harsh towards my friends and family

 

i like this thread! ha but for me it's just really simple:

- laid back and chill
- caring and kind
- laughs a lot
- has a good personality
- attractive

...and when i say attractive i dont mean like an angelina jolie type woman. i mean someone attractive to me. because ive come to find throughout my life people always have differing on opinions who is beautiful and who isnt. like someone i might find beautiful may be ugly or something to my friends lol as weird as that might sound?

 

A girl that's
- 4 to 5 feet
-Green/ blue eyes
-laughs at my jokes
-someone that Actually gives a crap.
-kind,
-Very pretty
-Nicebutt( being honest)

 

Hmm well I like both guys and girls, just depends on the person.

Me Likey:
-Nice eyes
-Clean teeth
-Cleanliness
-Laid back
-Funny/great sense of humor
-Not too tall/too short (around 5' to 5'6")
-Similar interests
-Can draw, write; is artistic
-Slim to average build
-Will play videogames with me
-Is goodlooking on the outside and inside

Me No Likey:
-Extremely tall
-Giddy
-Super girly
-Dramatic
-Dirty teeth
-Bad BO
-Doesn't take care of themselves
-Too down to earth
-Hates on my likes

All I can think of right now

 

Attractive:
- Sly and teasing smile
- Witty
- Funny
- Considerate
- Tells me when I'm wrong and right
- Is not afraid to talk about how he feels
- Open minded
- Someone who can keep up a conversation
- Intelligence
- Scruffyness in the face
- Green eyes are a killer
- A guy who understands when I need my space and time
- Knows what he wants
- Determination

Unattractive
- Bad sense of fashion
- Just plain rude not only to me but to other people
- Not classy
- As much as I try to not admit it, smoking puts me off from time to time (I have a boyfriend and he smokes and it puts me off here and there)
- Lack of confidence
- Self-worth
- Lying. Most of all.


I didn't list many physical attractiveness because in the end it really doesn't matter. I used to say that guys taller than me was attractive but then I fell in love with a hobbit-sized dork.

 

What I find attractive...

- A bit of competition and playfulness.
- Intelligence rivaling my own. I want to be able to have conversations without either of us feelings stupid in comparison.
- Creativity, either in art or literature.
- Respect. Not just for me, but for everyone. He should respect me, my family, his family (especially his mother), my friends, etc.
- Touchy-feely-ness. Is that a word? I like cuddles and hand-holding and caresses. <3
- Can cook and clean and do his own laundry. He should be able to live on his own without me taking care of him.
- Shares my interests.

What I find completely unattractive...

- *******s, jerks, etc.
- Use of the terms "swag" or "YOLO" except in satire.
- Makes sex the ultimate priority
- Opinion on boobs: the bigger, the better
- Smoking, heavy drinking (some drinking is okay), drugs
- Controlling or needy
- Swears way too much
- Liars, cheaters, and other relationship no-nos
- Huge ego

Don't really put anything on physical features, but... I guess glasses? I mean, when he wears glasses all the time, and then he takes them off and stares into my eyes.... akjsdfkjdvahaskdfjh omg ;~;

 

Each case is different for me. I don't have a list of things that attract me, that is actually limiting me. Although two people might share some common features, I might find attractive only one of them due to those features.

The only thing that I find attractive to everyone is when they look me in the eyes and smile.

 

Jayn is my ideal woman. *murdered*

Anyway, I think I answered a thread like this in '09 since I remember Jayn's answer from then but I've changed a lot in the past three years so.

I like the same things in boys and girls :3

physically attractive:​

+taller than me​

+nice smile​

+i'll admit i'm a sucker for darker skin than my own, though it's not hard to be there lol ( i'm pale as **** man :c )​

+likes to look nice (jeans and a t shirt just doesn't match up with my style sorry bro)​

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attractive personality-wise:​

+good taste in music, books, and films​

+enjoys artsy things (i'm a poet i'm allowed to be picky about that)​

+willing to put up with me being an idiot and also take care of me when i'm about to have a breakdown which is often jasdfadgskdsj​

+is okay with me sleeping on them and sleeping all the time​

+assertive without being overbearing​

+kind to all but okay with joking a little about others (i'm a mean person sob)​

+organized and hardworking​

+really kawaii all the time​

+also intelligence is the biggest thing in the world to me wow​

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but really I'm not as picky as I sound lol. ;__;

edit: i also forgot you have to live far away /shot