What do YOU think?

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  1. Yozora Archer

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    A lot more than this guy actually.



    I've been through some stuff. And Im not talking about those "nice" family moments, either.

    Im saying, like Makaze said, that it sounds like he hasn't had any major struggles in life.


    And yeah, Kingdom Hearts yo. I want to line the pieces up. Yours, and mine.






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  2. Maggy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Sforzato, It's not a debate or critique in the way you see it. I'm an artist, and that's how we critique art. It's a good metaphor for life, I believe. But thats just my view. I find myself becoming more aware of people's intentions and being more understanding, at the same time I'm trying to change the way I say things because it can hurt someone's feelings. It's like treat people how you want to be treated, would you want someone to talk to you like that? I understand your point, it makes sense, but it's just a different side of the plate. I'm not saying I'm right or wrong, I'm suggesting a different option.

    I wish more people my age and in general were like this, sometimes...Instead of just jumping ahead and putting people down without suggesting a better way, etc.

    IM BECOMING SO ZEN AND STUFF. WE LOVE EVERYONE, EVEN HOOKERS, haha my professor said that last part, it's funny but true...you should just try to like people and they'll like you back. CIRCLE OF LIIIIFEEEE

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  3. Yozora Archer

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    You're an artist? Can you post your stuff in the Traditional Art section.
     
  4. Peyton Goddess Of Love ♥

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    Mike wanted to expxress himself, based on his experiences, and he did.
    I don't see why you're bothering with saying wheter or not he's been through major struggles, as if it makes what he's saying less valid.


    Mike, I think that was a neat way of trying to say what's on your mind. +1 for it reminding everyone of KH.
     
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    Says yo-*shot*
     
  6. Yozora Archer

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    Why am I bothering?


    Because I can. And I did.



    I mean it's just so cheesy. "Be who you are and don't commit suicide even though you live in a nice home and you get to eat food every day!"


    I mean. Damn it.




    Okay yeah, you're right Penny.


    Sorry Mike. It's just that I watched 127 Hours last night, and after watching it I was like "What am I doing with my life?"

    Bad idea reading the speech of yours after watching that movie.
     
  7. Peyton Goddess Of Love ♥

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    Just because you haven't been through bad stuff, which we quite frankly don't know about Mike as he hasn't said anything himself on the matter, doesn't mean you don't get to express yourself in the way you desire.
    Also, just because you have been through bad stuff, it doesn't mean you have to rain someone else's parade. Go write something yourself that expresses what you feel and the stuff you been through if you really feel like bringing it up.
     
  8. Yozora Archer

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    Okay.




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    I honestly don't like writing touchy stories/speeches about life. It doesn't do anything. I mean, I guess mentally it does or w/e, but still.
     
  9. Misty gimme kiss

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    Agreed with Peyton, when someone is trying to express themselves or say something nice it's unbearably ****** to rag on them as if you are some greater being. It takes a lot of courage to do this sort of thing for some people, and good for Mike for trying.
     
  10. Peace and War Bianca, you minx!

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    Write what comes from the heart, not the head. You're mind can not understand the beats of your heart, only you can.

    I agree that it sounds like you've been planning this response in your head instead of simply letting out the words you feel, and that makes it seem less... True. It seems almost cheesy, and as such people take it less seriously. But that doesn't mean the words aren't right, the view is good, the delivery is questionable.
    But if it was for expression, it has gone well.

    I find this quote entertaining because this definitely isn't the first time that he's been scolded similar to this.
    His first posts on a subject are mostly pessimistic or negative. He likes to question, a feature I admire. But his choices of words aren't hesitant, the amount of times he's offended people because of that blunt manner... Remember mate, first impressions are the key ones...

    What you been smokin? When has the helpful and truly noble path ever been the path of least resistance? That is usually held by the selfish path.
    And BS, if you can help in any way you should, I could be a crap painter but if someone needed the help I'd do my best.
     
  11. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    If they specifically asked you for help or no one else will take up the job, perhaps. Otherwise, leave it to more experienced hands.

    What I dislike is someone having confidence in their abilities where it is not deserved. Someone feeling that they are helpful when they are not. Someone thinking that they know depression when their wording expresses it badly. It comes off in a bad way, if you catch my meaning. However...

    In all seriousness, Sforzato had the right idea, and I accept that I made an error in judgment. To improving, eh...?
     
  12. Maggy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    You have good points, overall. Again, I just choose not too be so blunt and critical. I know sometimes it might be necessary but...I just don't like to bring people down...

    Makaze, I understand your view, no worries. Just...take it easy, don't worry be happy...lol *hug*
    *puts hands together as if meditating*
     
  13. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    Rat are you on your period today or what
     
  14. Yozora Archer

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    *raises hand*
    I wasn't trying to act superior. That's Mak's job.




    @Forza - Stfu. If you'd seen 127 Hours, you would've replied the same way.





    AND I DUNNO OKAY. Maybe I am on my period. I have no idea.
     
  15. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    My mother says "I wasn't trying to..." all the time.

    And uses it as an excuse not to recognize what she's actually doing.

    Please don't do this.
     
  16. Yozora Archer

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    I wasn't trying to act it damn it dude.










    I don't have to ACT superior, anyway.
     
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    I just viewed this whole thread today and I have to say I'm not happy with it. I did ask how everyone felt in regard to it, but it just became into a big debate, which wasn't what I was looking for. My life has been hell and I've been through a lot, just like other members here on KHV. There are some things in my personal life that I felt I should share with KHV because I needed the help myself or because i wanted to help others. At the end of the day that is my goal. I always put everyone ahead of me, because that's just who I am. I focus on making others smile before I do. Then that will eventually lead to a smile from myself.

    I won't sit here and say my life is perfect. I can tell you right now that my life is difficult and I struggle. I'm upset with myself and at the end of the day I'm not sure who I am, but I know what I do wrong. I may not accept myself, but I'm aware of what needs change. I'm usually depressed and confused to be honest. But when I focus on the things I like and try to realize the things I do, I feel somewhat better. If someone takes my message in a positive way, then I'm happy with myself.

    This message was created because I felt good with myself yesterday and wanted to give back a little in what ever way possible. I wrote this with the intentions of using some words from the Kingdom Hearts series, because I feel there are some interesting words that could explain what I wanted in my general statement. Overall my message is just saying that you need to be yourself. Don't change. Just follow your heart and dreams. It's actually very basic and to the point. My latest video doesn't differ from that message. Someone on this thread said its not a different message from others? Well there are a lot more people who are struggling than these messages being posted. At least there are people trying to help.

    At the end of the day, I'm not perfect. None of us are. I don't care. I have other things to worry about and one of those things would be helping others out. So if the message wasn't written well then I will ditch it. Not a big deal. I think the only thing that matters is how we help each other. If I failed at helping someone out, then I'm sorry but I will NEVER give up.

    [video=youtube;jAcsGj4abwU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAcsGj4abwU[/video]​
     
  18. Yozora Archer

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    You should add some background information about yourself and then the speech comes along.



    That way maybe your words can be of more action or something.
     
  19. Maggy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    You mean so that they can have more significance or importance?

    If you guys would of seen Mike's previous posts, you would have known what he was going though. Do some research next time, you guys.
     
  20. Mike Chaser

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    Something like this...better now?

    Asking yourself "who am I?" becomes a common question for anybody to ask them self. The answer isn't always there, but it can be found in the future. If the answer is not there right away, don't let it take you down. Growing up in the early 90's, I learned that the world is cruel. Society has a label for everybody. Labels occur based on religion, gender, sexuality and our overall appearance and personality that we express day to day. These tags and groups that are created end up fading away as we age. Although we age and mature from being children to young/older adults, the world can still show a harsh pattern. Fact. People are afraid to change and accept others that may not be 100% like them.

    Matthew Shepard, a 21 year old man who happened to be gay was murdered because he was "different". He wasn't. He was just a human being who was caring, sensitive and loving towards his family and friends. Should I worry if I’m confused with my sexuality? No! Today the Matthew Shepard case continues to wreck my insides. Shepard was brutally murdered by two other guys who tied him to a fence and pistol whipped him in the head rapidly - sending him in an instant comma and left to die. Should you have to worry about your sexuality? This isn't the only tragedy that was displayed in society. Looking back; we've had Hitler who didn't like Jewish people. His goal was to torment people. In Salem, MA woman were accused of being involved with the devil. In the late 1600's, a common tag for woman was being labeled as "witches" because of their personality or the way they dressed. In the south, people who weren't "white" and appeared "black" became slaves. The “slaves” were also tortured and killed if they didn't complete what their masters wished.

    Today society is changing, but that doesn't mean there will never be tags again. It's important to break out of your shell and show everybody who you truly are as a person. As time moves fourth laws will eventually change. Did you know it’s legal for a gay couple to marry in New York? It didn't just happen overnight, but that’s because people who happened to be gay (not gay people) realized that they had to be themselves and fight for who they are.

    So next time you lose faith in yourself...remember those that are there with you 24/7. If you have a family who cares for you, you're popular. If you have friends, you're also popular. This is what defines someone being "popular". Being popular isn't like in high school when you see a bunch of people that were randomly selected. Don't let other people influence who you are. Dress the way you want. Express yourself in the way you want. Fall in love with whoever you want. Follow your heart and dreams. We live once, why make any regrets?

    If you live life to the fullest potential...wouldn't it be worth it?
     
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