What is Flirting to You?

I hate it when I'm talking to a girl and some random person says 'FLIRITERS!' or something like that.

 

I think flirting is when there is limited physical contact, but you kind of mess with their stuff and you kind of make eye contact. You joke around about kind of sexual things, but they know you're kidding around. Pretty much it's been summed up in all the previous posts. My friends say I flirt with every girl I talk to. Sadly, it's true. I'm a flirt, what can I say? :lolface:

 

Flirting is any ammount of affection that you would give someone more than you would normally because you are attracted to them in a sexual/romantic way.

 

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And also, I just think that overly blushing, giggling, etc. would be considered flirting but it's all for good fun and not too serious.

 

Well that wouldn't be flirting. Thats getting giddy. Although, getting giddy is a way to show the other that your attracted to them. The main difference is, getting giddy usually is unintentional.

 

It depends on the personalities of the two people, and what kind of relationship they're looking for. Two people who are in a less serious relationship may use lots of inuendo and blantant touching, but those who might be interesting in something more romantic will be less forward and more shy, probably more interested in just being together, talking and holding hands.

 

In my book flirting is a way to let the other one know that you are interested and want to pursue to get to know them better. If this goes the way as predicted then other factors come into the play such as admiration, sex appeal, etc.

 

i think its like talking to you a lot and beign really nice and touching and playin with you a lot

 

I feel like this is probably the most accurate definition, imo.

Honestly, when someone flirts with me, or opposite, you can get that sense that she's trying to grab your attention in that way. Depends on the girl really, if a girls looking for more of a fun relationship, it's most of that joking around and just hanging out. While a serious relationship is more like just gradually talking and just having that overall friend feeling, but knowing that it's something more, yknow? And the fucq relationships is just trying to do what you can to attract the person without looking like a total whore lmao.

 

Actions which dictate more than regularly friendly care for another human being.

lol smart ass

 

well for me, flirting is constently talking, to the same guy/girl over and over again.

 

Flirting has kind of been phased out where I live. Most of the signs usually interpreted as flirting are either jokes or indications of friendship and closeness.

It's kind of silly anyway. If you're interested in someone, you should just come out and say it; anyone worth the effort will appreciate your honesty and admire your confidence.

 

to me it is grabbing each others genitals and saying "hoo haa"


lol no, but like everyone else said i think it is when someone has direct contact and laughing at jokes that are not funny C:

 

I've seen a lot of classic signs of someone interested in someone else The touch, tightening of hand grips, the staring, Nervousness, etc.

But actual flirting behaviour, I don't actually think I've seen it before or haven't perceived in such a way.
How I would flirt? Well, I've never felt the constant need, maybe the odd time holding in the stomach and smiling more than often but nothing more. If you're going to go out with someone they should always see the true side to yourself. So I act how I normally do by trying to enjoy the situation I'm in with them.

 

It's all about that look in the eyes. You can just tell.

 

...And misinterpret. Which I've seen people do quite a bit more often than hitting the nail on the head.

 

I think flirting is making any sexual suggestions of any kind, and more touching needed then a hello hug or goodbye hug.

I dont think kissing falls under the category, as long as it's not on the lips or lower body parts ;D But I kiss my friends on the cheek and hug them when I leave.

 

Suggestive comments, body language, thats a big give away of flirting. I usually get misunderstood for flirting just because I'm nice to people all the time.....gets kinda annoying...